​                 

THE CONFIDENCE KING

There comes a moment in life
when doing more is no longer the answer.

You don’t need fixing.
You don’t need motivating.
You don’t need another strategy.

You need space.
You need containment.
You need to come back into your body, your authority, your rhythm.

That is where my work begins.

[Work With Me]

​

WHO I WORK WITH

I work with intelligent, capable people, often women,
who are expanding into a new chapter of life or leadership
after disruption, reinvention, or quiet exhaustion.

People who have outgrown noise.
People who sense there is more
and are no longer willing to chase it.

They don’t want to become someone else.
They want to come home to themselves, calmly, fully, unapologetically.

​

THE TONE

This is not motivational coaching.
There will be no hype.
And no shouting.

(Unless we’re laughing.)

My work is warm, grounded, and precise,
with standards.

Always standards.

​​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​​

​

​

​

​​

THE WORK BENEATH THE WORK

There is a moment many people reach, often privately,
where life looks successful enough
but feels strangely hollow, brittle, or misaligned.

Sometimes it follows divorce.
Sometimes burnout.
Sometimes success that came at the cost of self.

I know this moment intimately.

I’ve lived identity collapse.
I’ve rebuilt.
I’ve learned how to lead without armour.

My work is about reclaiming dignity, aliveness, and self-trust,
not as ideas, but as lived experience.

This is where confidence stops being a performance
and becomes a presence.

​

WHAT MAKES THIS WORK DIFFERENT

I don’t teach confidence.

I stabilise people at the point of expansion.

I work at the identity and nervous-system level,
where clarity replaces force
and authority replaces effort.

This is not about pushing forward.
It’s about becoming solid enough
that forward happens naturally.

​

WHO THIS IS FOR

You may recognise yourself here if:

• You are capable, experienced, and intelligent, but tired of holding it all together
• You are expanding into greater visibility, leadership, or truth
• You value elegance, self-respect, and personal authority
• You want depth without drama, clarity without pressure
• You are ready to lead your life differently

You don’t need more information.
You need integration.

​

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR

This work is not for everyone.

It is not for:
• People who need constant reassurance
• Those looking for motivation or “energy”
• Anyone outsourcing responsibility for their life
• Performative vulnerability
• Low commitment, low investment

I don’t rescue.
I don’t chase.
And I don’t over-explain.

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

​

 

HOW I WORK

My background spans high-pressure environments, leadership and etiquette, somatic and nervous-system work, and decades of lived experience.

Some of my work is quiet and private.
Some of it is embodied, creative, and theatrical.

All of it is grounded in one thing:

Helping people feel safe enough to be fully themselves again and lead from there.

​

WHAT CLIENTS SAY

**“Working with Ian didn’t make me louder or more confident on the surface, it made me calmer, clearer, and far more powerful.

***I stopped over-explaining myself. I stopped second-guessing. I started leading in my business, my relationships, and my own life, without force or performance.

***Ian has a rare ability to hold you steady while everything expands.

***If you’re looking for hype, this isn’t it.
***If you’re looking for depth, dignity, and real authority,  he’s exceptional.”**
— Private Clients

​

THE INVITATION

If reading this made you feel calmer,
not hyped, not sold to, calmer,
that matters.

This work is for people who are ready to lead themselves differently.

If that’s you, you’re welcome to explore working together.

[Apply to Work With Me]

Applications are reviewed personally.
Not all are accepted.​​​​​​